I know there are other people, but I don't want anyone else. I want you. Even when you're sad, even when you make mistakes, even if we don't agree at times. I still want you. "Affectionate Ladies c. 1900s-1980s"
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"the three components of love, according to the triangular theory, are an intimacy component, a passion component, and a decision/commitment component.” -theory by Robert Sternberg What is true love? What do you need to have it? That is THE question. Let's start with... Intimacy – Which encompasses feelings of attachment, closeness, connectedness, and bondedness (bound by a legal agreement, in particular). Followed by, Passion – Which is a unique puzzle-piece connection to both limerence (the state of being obsessed with another person) and sexual attraction. And last, Commitment – Which, in the short term, is the decision to remain with another person, and in the long term, is to make plans with that same person... It couldn't possibly be true, right? But, I think it is. A good relationship needs to have them all. We've been together for five years, and our relationship is based on love, passion, intimacy, and commitment. Love is one of the most profound emotions known to human, and for us is the most meaningful element in our lives. I know relationships are all about feelings. No relationship is all sunshine (nothing is completely perfect), because good relationships have those negatives and positives feelings, moments, and experiences… Good relationships take time, patience and two people who truly want to be together. Us, committing to one another, hasn't been easy. Actually, it's been really hard. But we want to do this not only because we want to, but because our lives were written that way... I want you (Raisha), I want all of you. Forever, you and I... It's complicated to explain how I feel about this love. It's incredible how much you can love another person; give everything you have to your Love and see yourself with her at your side forever. I know there are many others who feel the same way. Right? I love my woman and I can't wait to see what the future holds for us. "The amount of love one experiences depends on the absolute strength of these three components, and the type of love one experiences depends on their strengths relative to each other. by: Yaderis Montijo
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